Sharon Ballantine

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Avoid Your Disclaimers

Posted on: October 7th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Personal disclaimers were brought to mind this past weekend as I was taking a public speaking class.  We were not allowed to start our presentations with any disclaimers, much as we may have wanted to, as we felt insecure about presenting! What is a personal disclaimer? It is the self-deprecating statements or excuses we exclaim to others, that disclaim our responsibility for what we are about to do or say. For example: We may preface a task with “ I have no experience whatsoever with this, but I’ll try. Or a presentation with, “I haven’t had a chance to practice, and I have a sore throat, so it won’t be great.”

Why isn’t it a good idea to start a conversation, task or presentation with a disclaimer? The reason is this; disclaimers can make us feel like we’re less than . . .


Positive Thoughts Bring Happiness for All

Posted on: October 5th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Thinking positively impacts the way your life runs. If you can manage think as many good thoughts as possible, you’ll receive good things and happiness in kind. Plus, you’ll be teaching your children how to make their lives better by using their IGS to turn their thoughts around when they feel negativity approaching. Positivity helps to manifest those things you really care about, and to keep the negative things away.

Create Your Perfect Life with Positivity from Sharon Ballantine, Life Coach and Mentor

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What If You Could Believe…?

Posted on: September 30th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

What do you think your life would be like if you believed there was only wellbeing being offered to you?  Can you acknowledge you would feel good and be able to manifest what you want in an easier and quicker way?

You may argue that there is much negativity in the world and you observe it to some degree everywhere. But what if this negativity you’re observing is a product of people cutting themselves off from the wellbeing that is everywhere to start with?

I acknowledge that one can approach this perspective from the negative stance having the priority, but I choose to approach it from the perspective of starting with wellbeing.  Wellbeing exists everywhere and is offered to us constantly from the Universe, our Source. When we feel bad as in any kind of negative emotion, we are in resistance and . . .


Sharon Ballantine, Law of Attraction Coach

Are You In Your Body?

Posted on: September 23rd, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Many people think that if they’re alive, they must be in their body. It’s pretty obvious right? Not necessarily. We are alive, but our attention can be directed elsewhere and our consciousness as well. It is possible for us to have little awareness of our body when we spend too much time focusing outside ourselves. In other words, living in our heads wrapped in our own thoughts.

Why does it matter if you aren’t in your body? Have you ever felt like your thoughts aren’t fully connected and you are feeling a bit spacey? When you’re not in your body, you may be missing out on what is happening within it, simply by your lack of attention. These feelings can be the result of living in your head, which can result in not being grounded.  Being grounded means you are . . .



How To Stop Your Negative Momentum

Posted on: September 16th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Momentum is the energy that is gathered when an object, or in this case our thoughts, are headed in a certain direction and nothing gets in its way to slow it down. We’re all familiar with a car rolling down a hill, gaining momentum and going faster and faster. The same thing happens with our thoughts; did you know this?

The more time we focus on any particular train of thought, the more energy momentum it gathers. This is true whether it is positive momentum or negative momentum. In other words, when we feel happy and keep that focus, we get happier and happier. When we feel bad in any way and keep that focus, we feel worse by the minute until we end up miserable. Many of us may be in the habit of allowing our negative emotion to . . .



How To Handle Feeling Overwhelmed

Posted on: September 9th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

What causes you to feel overwhelmed?  Overwhelm can happen when you have too much to do with too little time to get everything done. It can happen when you’re being pulled in too many directions by ongoing commitments. You may feel overwhelmed by people around you, whether it’s your job environment, family, or circle of friends. Maybe you feel like you don’t have what you need to accomplish what you need to, whether it’s certain knowledge, or support system. Because we feel overwhelmed, we lose our sense of productivity, balance, and inspiration and can often become temporarily incapable of moving forward. Does this sound familiar?

How do we generally feel when we are overwhelmed? Some of the feelings I have experienced have been anxiety, exasperation, and exhaustion. These feelings aren’t conducive to the productivity we are trying to accomplish so we . . .


Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

Are You Getting What You Want From Others?

Posted on: September 2nd, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Almost every day of our lives involves asking someone for something.  Whether it’s asking the clerk at the grocery store where an item is, getting a refund back on a purchase we made, asking our children to be helpful, our co-workers to cooperate, or our spouse to be on time; we spend a great deal of time asking others for something we want.

Getting what we want from other people isn’t just about being nice, although that is surely a component. The key to getting what you want from other people is not what you’re asking them for it is the energy behind what you’re asking for. How are you feeling when you’re making the request? Not just feeling in regards to the person across from you, but feeling in general. What you’re feeling, you’re projecting on an energetic level as . . .


Manifesting Your Own Desires By Watching Your Children

Posted on: August 31st, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Adults get so caught up in raising their kids that they sometimes miss watching how their imaginations work. Focusing on what you want, not on what you don’t want, is a powerful way to help the Universe understand what you’re trying to achieve. Here’s more on manifesting your desires by watching your children.

Manifesting Your Own Desires By Watching Your Children

Law of Attraction Parenting: The secret to realizing your desires lies with your children from Sharon Ballantine, Life Coach and Mentor

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Don’t Face Reality, Create It

Posted on: August 26th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

What is reality anyway? Reality is whatever we are experiencing in the moment or living right now, front and center in our lives. It is what we believe to be true and real for us. Our work life has it’s own reality, as does our family life etc. Sometimes we like our reality and sometimes we don’t. What about when we want to change our reality?

Why shouldn’t we face reality?

I’m not really sure why it is so common for people to say, “face reality” when making choices in our lives or contemplating change. As if what you are living right now determines what you can create. It doesn’t. On the other hand, how can looking at a reality you don’t like be helpful? Your focus will determine if it is helpful or not.

Any time you spend looking at something you . . .


Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

Does Your Happiness Depend On Conditions Changing?

Posted on: August 19th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

We all desire things because we believe having them will make us feel better. This is true whether you want a relationship, a new home, an fun experience, a certain life condition or anything else you can dream of wanting. We are here in this life to create everything we can think of and to change our conditions continually if we that is what we want. Creating continually is the good part. The hard part happens when we need conditions to change and be a certain way before we allow ourselves to be happy. Have you noticed this?

It seems to be human nature that as a general rule, people need things to be a certain way, a way that matches their vision, in order to be happy. Some examples may be; I can be happy when… my dream job comes . . .


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