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Do You Like Being Seen?

Posted on: January 27th, 2016 by Sharon Ballantine

I would imagine many of us have at one time or another wished we were invisible.  Maybe it was a certain moment we wished we hadn’t said something, wished we could say something, or just plain felt out of place in the environment we found ourselves in. It can be a very uncomfortable feeling.

What if you could spend the majority of your experiences loving what you bring to the table and relishing being seen for whom you really are? Does being seen sound exhilarating or scary?

It can be scary to allow others to see who you really are by speaking your truth, and being your authentic self. Maybe you depend on other’s approval more than you would like. You may feel judged or anticipate being judged by others that may not agree with what you’re saying or doing. Feeling . . .


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How Do You Want To Feel?

Posted on: January 6th, 2016 by Sharon Ballantine

Have you ever thought about how your feelings relate to things that you want to have? In other words, in addition to the person, place, thing, or experience you want in your life, the feeling that you will have when you acquire or achieve your desire?

How do you want to feel when you get what you want?

Do you want to feel loved and secure by being in a relationship, financially abundant within a certain career, joyful with a certain amount of children, or safe in a certain home?

Many of us focus on a specific desired result. For example: You would like to be in a relationship with a particular person. Your dream trip may be to an island off the Italian coast. The job you want may be a specific title with a certain company. There may be a . . .


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Your Intention Or Resolution?

Posted on: December 30th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

As we come to the end of 2015, we may be reflecting on this past year and what life brought to us and what we created. There will probably be aspects in our lives that unfolded just as we imagined they would, perhaps even better or nowhere near what we envisioned. These aspects may relate to our state of health, relationships, job, finances, home, children, etc.  

Whether we feel we had a fabulous year or one we didn’t love, the good news is this: January 1st is a new beginning. It is the first day of the new-year, and each of us can therefore decide it is a fresh start. We have the capacity to create anything we choose in this coming year. Do you believe this?  Your answer will determine your starting point. What you believe is what you . . .


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Rock Your Memories

Posted on: December 23rd, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

You probably know from your life experience that whatever you think about determines how you feel. It doesn’t even take much time to either feel great or feel terrible, depending on the dialogue in your mind. As you sit and ponder what’s in store for you and you are excited, you feel good don’t you? When you worry or remember things that felt unpleasant, you don’t feel good.

As we live our day-to-day lives, it is our responsibility to find things to feel good about. Why? Because how we feel determines what we manifest, starting with more thoughts along the thought-train we’ve already started. Have you noticed that when you begin thinking about someone or something that isn’t pleasing you, the roller coaster begins?

One thought attracts another thought and you’re on your way to feeling worse and worse. The question is; . . .


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What Is Your Priority?

Posted on: December 16th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Did you know that the most important thing in your life is to be happy? How does that feel to you? Is it your priority to be happy? If so, why or even why not?

Over the years, the question I am asked most often is, “why is it so important that I be happy?” The reasons are endless, and it is my favorite subject to talk about. Being happy is also referred to as being in alignment, feeling good, and even joyous.

How happy you are determines many things. It determines what you manifest, as you will always manifest what you’re thinking and feeling. How happy you are will determine if you are an inspiration to others, be it your children, friends, co-workers, or anyone else. How happy you are will determine how you’re feeling, in your mind and your . . .


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Are Your Beliefs Conditional?

Posted on: November 24th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Each of us has beliefs that we’ve been accumulating throughout our lives. What is a belief? A belief is something we have told ourselves over and over. A belief can also be something someone else has told us, that we choose to accept as our truth. What we believe in can define us and determine how we behave in the world.

We aren’t born with specific truths as they relate to the world around us; we create them with our thoughts.

When another person or society challenges a belief you hold, do you experience that your belief feels conditional? In other words, do you consider changing your belief because it isn’t the popular one or others may feel threatened by it?

Having others disagree with what you believe is one way to determine how deeply held your particular belief is. . . .



Four Steps To Stop Feeling Old

Posted on: November 11th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

I believe there’s a difference between aging and getting old.  Aging is a natural process that begins at birth. Most of us loved the aging process when we were young and couldn’t wait to get to a certain age so we could do a certain activity. Getting old in our society is generally associated with decline and disease.

Getting older should ideally be the most fun time in our lives! It is a time when, if we’ve had kids, they’re grown up and are out creating their own paths. It may be a time when we have the chance to finally create the career of our dreams. Perhaps even travel more. Regardless of our circumstance, it is where we currently find ourselves, so why not make it the best it can possibly be? Do we want to feel great and . . .


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What Makes You Laugh?

Posted on: November 4th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

I recently found myself remembering a really funny thing that happened to me, and as I remembered the details, I started to laugh out loud like it was the funniest thing that had ever occurred. What I was finding so funny was nothing of huge importance, just another silly thing I had created. But it was so much fun to do this, that I began remembering it on purpose just so I could laugh. I started to do this everyday, remembering different funny things that had happened recently or even years ago. This is called creating joy on purpose.

I started to think that I was on to something important. Why wait for something funny to happen to laugh out loud. You never know, it could take weeks if you’re waiting for humor to come to you. You can create . . .


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Be The Light At The End Of The Tunnel

Posted on: October 28th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Each of us wants to be a support system for our loved ones, or others that we encounter in need. What occurs when you want to help someone but begin to feel the same negative emotions as him or her? The result is: you feel bad too, and therefore can’t offer anything of value.

Why not? This is because you cannot offer another person what you don’t have. If you want to offer a good feeling, you must have it first. Negative emotion is a lowered vibration and when you want to support someone, your desire is to offer a higher vibration than they are currently feeling.

Does this mean that you can never have a conversation with someone about what is bothering them? The answer is yes and no, but I’ll explain.  Again, you offer no real value to anyone . . .


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Is Your Focus Out of Whack?

Posted on: October 21st, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Have you ever noticed that when you take your attention off something, the momentum slows down? Momentum dictates how fast you are moving toward or away from an object or desire. Do you ever wonder why things aren’t manifesting as quickly as you would like them to? If you aren’t manifesting as quickly as you would like then you need to fine-tune your focus. Much of manifestation has to do with how you are focusing your attention.

Our busy everyday lives can distract us from focusing on what we truly want. We may be giving the majority of our attention to getting through the day. If we turn our attention away from what we want then our creative process slows down. It’s really hard to find your next best job opportunity when you’re not taking the time to think about . . .


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