Sharon Ballantine

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Are Your Beliefs Conditional?

Posted on: November 24th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Each of us has beliefs that we’ve been accumulating throughout our lives. What is a belief? A belief is something we have told ourselves over and over. A belief can also be something someone else has told us, that we choose to accept as our truth. What we believe in can define us and determine how we behave in the world.

We aren’t born with specific truths as they relate to the world around us; we create them with our thoughts.

When another person or society challenges a belief you hold, do you experience that your belief feels conditional? In other words, do you consider changing your belief because it isn’t the popular one or others may feel threatened by it?

Having others disagree with what you believe is one way to determine how deeply held your particular belief is. . . .



Four Steps To Stop Feeling Old

Posted on: November 11th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

I believe there’s a difference between aging and getting old.  Aging is a natural process that begins at birth. Most of us loved the aging process when we were young and couldn’t wait to get to a certain age so we could do a certain activity. Getting old in our society is generally associated with decline and disease.

Getting older should ideally be the most fun time in our lives! It is a time when, if we’ve had kids, they’re grown up and are out creating their own paths. It may be a time when we have the chance to finally create the career of our dreams. Perhaps even travel more. Regardless of our circumstance, it is where we currently find ourselves, so why not make it the best it can possibly be? Do we want to feel great and . . .


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What Makes You Laugh?

Posted on: November 4th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

I recently found myself remembering a really funny thing that happened to me, and as I remembered the details, I started to laugh out loud like it was the funniest thing that had ever occurred. What I was finding so funny was nothing of huge importance, just another silly thing I had created. But it was so much fun to do this, that I began remembering it on purpose just so I could laugh. I started to do this everyday, remembering different funny things that had happened recently or even years ago. This is called creating joy on purpose.

I started to think that I was on to something important. Why wait for something funny to happen to laugh out loud. You never know, it could take weeks if you’re waiting for humor to come to you. You can create . . .


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Be The Light At The End Of The Tunnel

Posted on: October 28th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Each of us wants to be a support system for our loved ones, or others that we encounter in need. What occurs when you want to help someone but begin to feel the same negative emotions as him or her? The result is: you feel bad too, and therefore can’t offer anything of value.

Why not? This is because you cannot offer another person what you don’t have. If you want to offer a good feeling, you must have it first. Negative emotion is a lowered vibration and when you want to support someone, your desire is to offer a higher vibration than they are currently feeling.

Does this mean that you can never have a conversation with someone about what is bothering them? The answer is yes and no, but I’ll explain.  Again, you offer no real value to anyone . . .


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Is Your Focus Out of Whack?

Posted on: October 21st, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Have you ever noticed that when you take your attention off something, the momentum slows down? Momentum dictates how fast you are moving toward or away from an object or desire. Do you ever wonder why things aren’t manifesting as quickly as you would like them to? If you aren’t manifesting as quickly as you would like then you need to fine-tune your focus. Much of manifestation has to do with how you are focusing your attention.

Our busy everyday lives can distract us from focusing on what we truly want. We may be giving the majority of our attention to getting through the day. If we turn our attention away from what we want then our creative process slows down. It’s really hard to find your next best job opportunity when you’re not taking the time to think about . . .


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Avoid Your Disclaimers

Posted on: October 7th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Personal disclaimers were brought to mind this past weekend as I was taking a public speaking class.  We were not allowed to start our presentations with any disclaimers, much as we may have wanted to, as we felt insecure about presenting! What is a personal disclaimer? It is the self-deprecating statements or excuses we exclaim to others, that disclaim our responsibility for what we are about to do or say. For example: We may preface a task with “ I have no experience whatsoever with this, but I’ll try. Or a presentation with, “I haven’t had a chance to practice, and I have a sore throat, so it won’t be great.”

Why isn’t it a good idea to start a conversation, task or presentation with a disclaimer? The reason is this; disclaimers can make us feel like we’re less than . . .


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What If You Could Believe…?

Posted on: September 30th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

What do you think your life would be like if you believed there was only wellbeing being offered to you?  Can you acknowledge you would feel good and be able to manifest what you want in an easier and quicker way?

You may argue that there is much negativity in the world and you observe it to some degree everywhere. But what if this negativity you’re observing is a product of people cutting themselves off from the wellbeing that is everywhere to start with?

I acknowledge that one can approach this perspective from the negative stance having the priority, but I choose to approach it from the perspective of starting with wellbeing.  Wellbeing exists everywhere and is offered to us constantly from the Universe, our Source. When we feel bad as in any kind of negative emotion, we are in resistance and . . .


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Are You In Your Body?

Posted on: September 23rd, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Many people think that if they’re alive, they must be in their body. It’s pretty obvious right? Not necessarily. We are alive, but our attention can be directed elsewhere and our consciousness as well. It is possible for us to have little awareness of our body when we spend too much time focusing outside ourselves. In other words, living in our heads wrapped in our own thoughts.

Why does it matter if you aren’t in your body? Have you ever felt like your thoughts aren’t fully connected and you are feeling a bit spacey? When you’re not in your body, you may be missing out on what is happening within it, simply by your lack of attention. These feelings can be the result of living in your head, which can result in not being grounded.  Being grounded means you are . . .



How To Stop Your Negative Momentum

Posted on: September 16th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Momentum is the energy that is gathered when an object, or in this case our thoughts, are headed in a certain direction and nothing gets in its way to slow it down. We’re all familiar with a car rolling down a hill, gaining momentum and going faster and faster. The same thing happens with our thoughts; did you know this?

The more time we focus on any particular train of thought, the more energy momentum it gathers. This is true whether it is positive momentum or negative momentum. In other words, when we feel happy and keep that focus, we get happier and happier. When we feel bad in any way and keep that focus, we feel worse by the minute until we end up miserable. Many of us may be in the habit of allowing our negative emotion to . . .



How To Handle Feeling Overwhelmed

Posted on: September 9th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

What causes you to feel overwhelmed?  Overwhelm can happen when you have too much to do with too little time to get everything done. It can happen when you’re being pulled in too many directions by ongoing commitments. You may feel overwhelmed by people around you, whether it’s your job environment, family, or circle of friends. Maybe you feel like you don’t have what you need to accomplish what you need to, whether it’s certain knowledge, or support system. Because we feel overwhelmed, we lose our sense of productivity, balance, and inspiration and can often become temporarily incapable of moving forward. Does this sound familiar?

How do we generally feel when we are overwhelmed? Some of the feelings I have experienced have been anxiety, exasperation, and exhaustion. These feelings aren’t conducive to the productivity we are trying to accomplish so we . . .


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