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Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

You Can’t Recreate The Past

Posted on: March 25th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Haven’t we all had an experience or a series of experiences that we wish we could have over and over?  They may have felt so good that we struggle to think of not being able to have them on a regular basis and experience them forever.

We can’t recreate the exact aspects of our past, the perfect job we had, the amazing lover or the fabulous city we once lived in, and the truth is we probably wouldn’t want them in the same way we experienced them at the time they were in our lives.

We move on and we change, as our purpose is to constantly create a new vision for ourselves. This new vision is an expanded version of who we are now.

Our lives are a series of experiences that evolve us.  We evolve from these experiences by taking with . . .


Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

It Doesn’t Matter What You Believe In

Posted on: March 18th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Did you notice I said, “It doesn’t matter what you believe in,” and not “It doesn’t matter that you believe?” Because I think it’s important for all of us to believe in something, as our beliefs can help ground us and help form our perspectives on the world.  We’re never going to all agree on the same things and that’s just as it should be.

Life isn’t a contest and those with the most beliefs and the best arguers don’t win.  It’s the most fun when each of us can feel secure in the subjects we believe that bring us comfort without feeling like everyone must believe as we do.

Our life experience dictates our beliefs.  Any single thought or pattern of thoughts we continue to indulge in over a period of time will become a belief.  These thoughts become a recording . . .


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Your Thoughts Aren’t Private

Posted on: March 11th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

I remember as a child, taking solace in knowing that I could have any thoughts I wanted to, and no one would ever know. I could be angry with others and say whatever I wanted to them in my head and they would be none the wiser.  All the judgments and sometimes not so nice things could fill my head without anyone being affected.  As I grew older and came to experience life, it became clear the limiting belief I had been harboring all those years was absolutely not true.

The words in your head may be private but the energy you send with those thoughts is not.

You see; the world of energy is more powerful than anything you can ever say or think as words in your head. The energy you transmit to the world and to others starts with . . .


Sharon Ballantine, Law of Attraction Coach

Do You Want A Better Relationship With Money?

Posted on: March 4th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Is money your friend or foe? Do you believe you can have monetary abundance? I have found that most people have a serious emotional relationship with money that often doesn’t feel good.

We tend to have belief systems around money that don’t serve us, which keep it from manifesting abundantly into our lives.

Some of these beliefs are:

~ There isn’t enough money in my life

~ I don’t deserve to have financial abundance

~ I’ll never have enough money

~ How much effort I expend determines the amount of money I have

When you live a certain situation long enough you come to believe the situation you are living is going to last forever.  It doesn’t have to. The Law of Attraction reacts to whatever you are thinking and feeling and sends it your way. If you’re thinking and feeling you lack in the money department, . . .



Leveraging Your LOA Superpower

Posted on: February 24th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

We get a lot of input about what it takes to be an effective conscious creator: appreciation, finding better feeling thoughts, releasing resistance, etc.

But rather than feel like we have to master all the LOA skills out there, what if we just focused on doing one thing really well?

Would that be enough to successfully manifest what we want at will?

Marcus Buckingham teaches muggles that instead of trying to be good at everything, people are better off leveraging what they’re naturally good at. He makes a strong argument for why that’s effective.

Does this same principle translate to creating our own reality?

I believe it can.

Rather than try to master the art of affirmations, and pivot all the negative thoughts, and learn how to allow, etc. – what if all we did was focus on one particular alignment practice? Like having fun, or . . .


Sharon Ballantine, Law of Attraction Coach

Letting Your Emotions Drop You To Your Knees

Posted on: February 18th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Letting your emotions drop you to your knees? I know it sounds extreme, and it may not necessarily be literal. It is however, part of an important process that will help you feel your emotions completely and then be capable of releasing them.

We all have emotions and sometimes they feel good and sometimes they don’t. Many people find themselves thinking that if they let themselves feel their negative emotions too intensely, they aren’t living in a positive way.  People come to me feeling stressed that they aren’t feeling positive enough and have started to judge themselves and others around them for their lack of positivity. I tell them no one can stay positive 100% of the time and you aren’t supposed to.

Many feel confused about what it means to live a positive life.  Living a positive life doesn’t mean that . . .


Sharon Ballantine, Law of Attraction Coach

Are You Too Busy To Be Happy?

Posted on: February 11th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Someone I care about recently said the most interesting thing to me. In my effort to be a better friend and family member, I often ask how those close to me are feeling and if they’re happy. I imagined that others might appreciate that someone checks in with their mental state occasionally.  I’ve come to realize it’s a loaded question.

Her answer really shocked me. She said, “I’m too busy to be happy.” I asked her why that was the case?  She thought again and added, “ I think I’m too busy to know if I’m happy.” Well, either way, it didn’t sound like a fun way to be experiencing things.

If you don’t know if you’re happy you won’t be able to do what it takes to be happy.

I really believe that each of us wants to live a happy life. . . .


Sharon Ballantine, Law of Attraction Coach

Empathy Without Attachment

Posted on: February 4th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Each of us wants to be supportive to those around us, particularly the people we really care about.

Most of the time this can involve sitting face to face with them or over the phone, hearing all about the problem(s) they may be currently having.  They may be someone that requests our time often with their cares and worries or an occasional friend that needs a sympathetic ear. You may even find yourself feeling dread at the prospect of being with them because you leave their company feeling badly.

Have you ever wondered how you can support the people you care about without ending up feeling as bad as they do? I have found that most people feel they can only be a support to their family, friends, co-workers etc. if they lower their own energy level to whomever they are with, . . .


Sharon Ballantine, Law of Attraction Coach

What Size Is Your Thrill?

Posted on: January 28th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

One of the ways I feel the most joy is to be out in nature. I don’t spend a lot of time outside nearly as often as I would like, mostly because I don’t make the effort and I find a million other things I feel I need to get accomplished. Having lived out in the country for several decades, I know this is where I find the most peace.

My husband and I recently decided to return to Chile, South America, which is one of my favorite places on Earth. It most likely is because I spent much of my childhood there. As part of the trip, we booked a fly-fishing trip to the Southern part of Chile as it is famous for its catch and release trout, snow capped Andes Mountains everywhere you look, and the most turquoise colored . . .


Sharon Ballantine, Law of Attraction Coach

What Are You Thinking And How Are you Thinking?

Posted on: January 14th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

There are many ways to delve into your own thoughts and also someone else’s. I want to explore two different ways of thinking about your own thoughts and also  exploring other people’s thoughts.

Have you ever asked anyone what he or she is thinking, or has anyone ever asked you?  Some people love to be asked to share their current thoughts and others may resent the perceived intrusion into their private mind.  How do you feel about being asked?

I used to think it was a lazy person’s way of starting a conversation until I started to ask others and myself why this question is ever posed. Here are some things I found in my casual research.  You may want to know what others are thinking because:

~ You really do want to start a conversation.

~ You are trying to determine someone’s emotional . . .