Sharon Ballantine

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Leap And The Net Will Appear

Posted on: April 22nd, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Recently my husband came upon a greeting card with a Zen saying in large bold letters, which seemed to profoundly inspire him. “Leap And The Net Will Appear.”  Perhaps you’ve heard this as well? I think it evokes a great mental image and potentially a really good feeling. I believe it to simply mean that if we take a leap of faith in our lives, things will work out just fine. I believe this to be true, but aren’t we held back sometimes by the fear this can evoke as well? What if the net doesn’t appear?

What is a leap of faith? It is taking a chance, a risk, an action step toward something completely unknown without a determined outcome. For example, the new relationship that feels good but scary at the same time. The chance to be vulnerable to . . .


Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

Are You Getting What You Want?

Posted on: April 15th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

You can always tell when a person is accustomed to getting what they want.  They have a certain air about them, a certain attitude if you will. I like to call this air and attitude plain old-fashioned happiness.  When we get what we want we’re happy as the emotions we experience feel great, and when we don’t, the emotional toll can feel awful.

Don’t we all want to get what we want, at least most of the time? That’s why we’re here isn’t it, to create our wildest dreams and experience what we desire? I think so.

What are some of the ways in which we want things?  Well, that’s a big question as there are so many aspects to our lives. It may mean you want your ideal love relationship, a job you love, the respect of your children and the . . .


Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

Do You Hear Your Loved Ones Cues?

Posted on: April 8th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

In our busy and hectic lives we can often forget how to hear what others are saying to us. It’s not just about listening to them; it’s about hearing at a deeper level than their words convey and how what they’re saying may relate to us. These are our cues.

Once we realize how our loved ones complaints may relate to ourselves, we have the opportunity to improve the quality of our relationship, as so often what others want from us is expressed indirectly.

What is it that your spouse or significant other complains about that affects them deeply? Are their complaints dismissed as non-important, and are they even heard?

An example of how I came to learn this was when my husband shared a story with me on numerous occasions that took a while to see how it related to me. In . . .


Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

Do You Believe What You’re Told About Yourself?

Posted on: April 1st, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Since the day you’re born, judgments both positive and negative come streaming at you, competing for your attention and belief system. It starts with your parents and family members, then the teachers at school, as well as your friends and acquaintances. Later on it’s co-workers, business partners, significant others and so forth.

Whatever you are told repeatedly can become ingrained and when it becomes ingrained it becomes what you believe. What do you believe about yourself that was expressed by others and accepted by you? Nothing can become a belief that is not first accepted, whether it is accepted consciously or unconsciously.

For example: As a child we may be told over and over how smart we are. By the time we’re grown-up we will most likely believe that we are smart! It is easy for children to develop beliefs about what . . .


Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

You Can’t Recreate The Past

Posted on: March 25th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Haven’t we all had an experience or a series of experiences that we wish we could have over and over?  They may have felt so good that we struggle to think of not being able to have them on a regular basis and experience them forever.

We can’t recreate the exact aspects of our past, the perfect job we had, the amazing lover or the fabulous city we once lived in, and the truth is we probably wouldn’t want them in the same way we experienced them at the time they were in our lives.

We move on and we change, as our purpose is to constantly create a new vision for ourselves. This new vision is an expanded version of who we are now.

Our lives are a series of experiences that evolve us.  We evolve from these experiences by taking with . . .


Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

It Doesn’t Matter What You Believe In

Posted on: March 18th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Did you notice I said, “It doesn’t matter what you believe in,” and not “It doesn’t matter that you believe?” Because I think it’s important for all of us to believe in something, as our beliefs can help ground us and help form our perspectives on the world.  We’re never going to all agree on the same things and that’s just as it should be.

Life isn’t a contest and those with the most beliefs and the best arguers don’t win.  It’s the most fun when each of us can feel secure in the subjects we believe that bring us comfort without feeling like everyone must believe as we do.

Our life experience dictates our beliefs.  Any single thought or pattern of thoughts we continue to indulge in over a period of time will become a belief.  These thoughts become a recording . . .


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Your Thoughts Aren’t Private

Posted on: March 11th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

I remember as a child, taking solace in knowing that I could have any thoughts I wanted to, and no one would ever know. I could be angry with others and say whatever I wanted to them in my head and they would be none the wiser.  All the judgments and sometimes not so nice things could fill my head without anyone being affected.  As I grew older and came to experience life, it became clear the limiting belief I had been harboring all those years was absolutely not true.

The words in your head may be private but the energy you send with those thoughts is not.

You see; the world of energy is more powerful than anything you can ever say or think as words in your head. The energy you transmit to the world and to others starts with . . .


Sharon Ballantine, Law of Attraction Coach

Do You Want A Better Relationship With Money?

Posted on: March 4th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Is money your friend or foe? Do you believe you can have monetary abundance? I have found that most people have a serious emotional relationship with money that often doesn’t feel good.

We tend to have belief systems around money that don’t serve us, which keep it from manifesting abundantly into our lives.

Some of these beliefs are:

~ There isn’t enough money in my life

~ I don’t deserve to have financial abundance

~ I’ll never have enough money

~ How much effort I expend determines the amount of money I have

When you live a certain situation long enough you come to believe the situation you are living is going to last forever.  It doesn’t have to. The Law of Attraction reacts to whatever you are thinking and feeling and sends it your way. If you’re thinking and feeling you lack in the money department, . . .



Leveraging Your LOA Superpower

Posted on: February 24th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

We get a lot of input about what it takes to be an effective conscious creator: appreciation, finding better feeling thoughts, releasing resistance, etc.

But rather than feel like we have to master all the LOA skills out there, what if we just focused on doing one thing really well?

Would that be enough to successfully manifest what we want at will?

Marcus Buckingham teaches muggles that instead of trying to be good at everything, people are better off leveraging what they’re naturally good at. He makes a strong argument for why that’s effective.

Does this same principle translate to creating our own reality?

I believe it can.

Rather than try to master the art of affirmations, and pivot all the negative thoughts, and learn how to allow, etc. – what if all we did was focus on one particular alignment practice? Like having fun, or . . .


Sharon Ballantine, Law of Attraction Coach

Letting Your Emotions Drop You To Your Knees

Posted on: February 18th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Letting your emotions drop you to your knees? I know it sounds extreme, and it may not necessarily be literal. It is however, part of an important process that will help you feel your emotions completely and then be capable of releasing them.

We all have emotions and sometimes they feel good and sometimes they don’t. Many people find themselves thinking that if they let themselves feel their negative emotions too intensely, they aren’t living in a positive way.  People come to me feeling stressed that they aren’t feeling positive enough and have started to judge themselves and others around them for their lack of positivity. I tell them no one can stay positive 100% of the time and you aren’t supposed to.

Many feel confused about what it means to live a positive life.  Living a positive life doesn’t mean that . . .