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Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

Your Path of Least Resistance

Posted on: July 1st, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Does the phrase “Your Path of Least Resistance” inspire a calming feeling in you?

What is resistance? Resistance is what we feel when we 1) don’t want to do something 2) feel any kind of negative emotion 3) push against anything unwanted in our lives.  Resistance is the uncomfortable place we find ourselves when we have blocked off the access to our wellbeing (happiness) and we are feeling unhappy.

Why is it a big deal to be in resistance? Well, it isn’t a big deal because you will eventually feel good again and that’s the instant you evolve. That is the gift of negative emotion. Did you know that? The instant you feel good again you have evolved and you are better than you were before. Wow, that’s a really good thing. But, what about in the meantime? While you’re feeling bad . . .


Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

Why Pay Attention To Your Manifestations?

Posted on: June 24th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

What are your manifestations and why pay attention to them? Your manifestations are everything you are experiencing. They are what you’re attracting with your thoughts and feelings.  These manifestations are showing you in which direction you’re headed, toward what you want or toward what you don’t want.

Did you know that your thoughts are also your manifestations? The thought you just had was a direct result of your previous thought. Did it feel good? Answering either yes or no will give you the indication of where you’re headed next.

When we are in alignment, which means we’re feeling good/happy, we have access to our wellbeing and all the answers to everything we’re looking for and wanting.  These answers come in the form of people, things, experiences and inspirational ideas.  Since the Universe only sends well being our way it’s important to keep . . .


Sharon Ballantine, Law of Attraction Coach

5 Ways To Use Your Internal Guidance System

Posted on: June 17th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Each of us is unique. You already knew that. There is no single truth or formula that works for every person regarding every subject. For example: One diet that works for everyone or one way to be successful in business. There is one exception to this rule and it’s this:

Everyone’s Internal Guidance System holds the key to everything they want.

Your IGS is not found in your brain mixed in with all your cells and logic. Your IGS is found in every cell in your body, encompasses everything that you are and is your connection to The Universe.  Sound too big to handle? You can handle it.

What is your IGS? There are several terms used to describe it, but you’re probably familiar with people describing listening to their gut, or their heart when wanting to make their best choices and decisions . . .



Are You Listening To What You’re Thinking?

Posted on: June 10th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Most of us listen to what other people are talking about, but do we pay close attention to what we are saying to others, let alone the thinking that goes on in our own heads?  It’s probably safe to say many of us may not be.

Much of your attention is spent projected out into the world, as you give your focus to whatever or whoever is able to grab your attention.  Of course it’s of great value to be externally projected, as this is where your stimulus and learning can come from.  What about your own internal world, which is made up of your thoughts and feelings?  This personal world is crucial to pay attention to and nurture because from this place, comes what you create in your life.

You manifest your experience based on your thoughts, which always evolves into . . .


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Your Thoughts Create Your Relationships

Posted on: June 3rd, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Have you ever wondered why you have the people you have in your life? What about after you attract them, maintaining the relationship you desire?

We first attract our relationships and then we create them, meaning mold them into what we experience from the people we have the relationship with.  Each of us without exception attracts everything we experience including all other people, based on how we are feeling which has resulted from what we are thinking.

As a bit of explanation, you emit as energy, a vibration with a certain wavelength, which has resulted from your feelings, beliefs and expectations. What you then experience will always match whatever this vibration is. For example: if you are feeling abundant and appreciative you will attract things that make you feel even more abundant and give you more things and people to appreciate. The . . .


Sharon Ballantine, Law of Attraction Coach

Be The Observer of Conflict, Not The Reactor

Posted on: May 27th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

To become the observer means to be fully present to what is happening around you, make clear choices without mindlessly reacting.  Only as the observer can you have a broad perspective. We are used to being fully and deeply immersed in our lives, which can tend to obscure the broad perspective, which is essential when we want a productive positive result in a situation. This is particularly true when we find ourselves in conflict, whether it’s internal, or conflict with someone else.

What is a reactor and why not be one? A reactor is someone who jumps into a situation or comes to a conclusion either verbally or physically without thinking things through. It is generally impulsive and without thought, and can occur very quickly. A reactor’s actions and words can be haphazard and often out of control.  Reactor behavior can . . .


It’s Important To Start Your Day On A High Note

It’s Important To Start Your Day On A High Note

Posted on: May 20th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Why is it so important to start your day on a high note, meaning feeling good? Have you ever noticed the mood you wake up with can determine the mood of your whole day? If you’ve gotten in the habit of waking up in a state that feels less than wonderful, it’s time to change it up now. Each of us wants to feel good and have experiences that enhance our lives, not to mention our day, today!

Since we create our realities (yes we do) it’s important that we begin each day with the mood we want to carry through our day. This mood sets the tone and it starts the momentum going.  Momentum is created with energy, so the more thought (which is energy) you put into feeling a certain way will power up the momentum. This momentum can . . .


Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

Do You Feel Other’s Pain?

Posted on: May 13th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Do you ever feel sensitive to other people’s physical or emotional pain to the point of beginning to take on the exact symptoms at the mere mention of hearing about them? Maybe you don’t even know the people in question, but are listening to the news or hearing their story second hand. Being identified as an Empath is a term I have heard used to describe this kind of sensitivity found in many people. Can you relate to this or know someone close to you who is?

While some people with this kind of sensitivity and openness view this as a way of being they love and welcome, others find it uncomfortable and unwanted. There is no right or wrong way of being in relation to your level of openness but there are ways to enhance it if you love it . . .


Law of Attraction Coach, Sharon Ballantine

Why Having FUN Is So Important

Posted on: May 6th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

I find myself writing about fun often, mostly because I love to have fun and because I hear from so many people that they don’t feel like they can make fun a priority.  Why not? Fun can often be viewed as the reward we give ourselves after we get our work done, and our responsibilities taken care of.  After those are accomplished, there may be no time left for fun. Sound familiar?

I spend a great deal of time trying to discourage this perspective and attitude, as there are so many benefits to be found in your fun! Well-being is the greatest benefit you will find in the fun activities and moments you create and your well-being is the most important aspect of a happy and healthy life. In other words, well-being needs to be a priority and fun is an . . .


Parenting Coach, Sharon Ballantine

Facing Fears Around Graduation Time and Growing Up

Posted on: May 5th, 2015 by Sharon Ballantine

Spring is a beautiful season, but it can be a filled with anxiety and anticipation for your kids. This can be especially true for kids who are gearing up to make important life decisions.

They may be choosing where they want to go to college or maybe they’re about to graduate, which as exciting as that is, it also means there are new and unknown challenges that follow.

Or maybe your kids have finished their studies and are looking at beginning a new stage of life — being adults and getting “real” jobs.

The pressure kids are under to perform well is enormous. Like it or not, standardized testing plays a large role in where they’re able to go for advanced education; if they even can afford to or want to in the first place.

While it’s tough enough in the United States, it . . .